It's like he doesn't know when to stop. Walk out now. reader, zay zay+, writes (10 July 2009): A As I sat in there, Gods Spirit spoke to my heart and instructed me to sow a sacrificial seed into their new building program. Therefore, you should endeavour to advise your husband and remind him of Allaah, and there is no harm if you seek the help of righteous and pious people to admonish him; it might be that he will take heed and stop behaving in such a manner. Upon hearing this, the high priest ripped his clothes and screamed, Blasphemy! as all the scribes and elders lifted their voices in anger, demanding that Jesus die (Matthew 26:66). Sorry, this post was deleted by the person who originally posted it. And it's beside the point. I found a home for my three dogs, who I had for YEARS, and the couple who took them changed my life forever. But now He was being led like a sheep to the spiritual butcher of Jerusalem, the high priest Caiaphas, and to the scribes and elders who had assembled to wait for His arrival. Just shows poor planning and spits in the face of every city planning scheme being undertaken in the developed world. Not only was this brutal it was sadistic! I don't forgive people when they spit in my face. Here in the US its called assult to spit on somebody. But first they wanted to take some time to personally make sure He suffered before He died. 2. [At-Tirmithi] So, if a husband treats his wife with content and despises her, especially if he did so by spitting on her face as mentioned in the question, then he was indeed wrong and sinful. Spitting at you, threatening you, treating your other DC badly, being unsupportive about PND - this is unacceptable behaviour, full stop. formal<---------------|-------------X-->informal. Have you tried spitting on him? WebGet a divorce. My H is ADHD, he grew up in a very abusive family, and honesty I think he is bipolar on some level. Been getting it daily ,my wife is going thru some form of dementia I would say demon possesion.what she seeks to save she destroys, I'm ready for d So why dont you take a few minutes today to pray about the people who have let you down or disappointed you? The police came, arrested him and I INSTANTLY became homeless. You have loved me with a consistent love, even in times when Ive acted badly and didnt deserve it. Don't beat yourself up over what you did or didn't do, what caused it, etc. Also, that is assault. 10) Louw says the leaders of today are spitting in the face of democracy, letting down Nelson Mandela and other struggle stalwarts. Were you stunned by his behavior? I have been spit on before so I understand. How about you? When I heard about this event, it hurt so badly that it cut deep into my heart. No I don't want them to, this is not normal behavior, I know that. It's only going to get worse. A Dont be his verbal , physical punching bag. How to respond when someone spits in your partner's face Look at self Answer (1 of 3): Smile and ask her to spit on other side. Spitting in your SOs face is completely disrespectful and unforgivable, please break up with him before he truly hurts you. But what hurt the most was that the pastor had put us down and publicly made fun of us in front of his staff and leadership. JavaScript is disabled. Why the hell should you? Allow them to support you and your children at this time. That's assault. But he can say what he likes. OUR VISION is to take the Gospel both to our nearby world and to the ends of the earth, proclaiming Christ, and warning and teaching every man with all wisdom, in order that we may present every person fully mature in Christ Jesus. I am so sorry he treated you this way How awful to start the day like this!!! For a second time, he injected a dagger into my heart! If you stay, you might as well tell him to abuse you and disrespect you. I won't be surprised if some men come to this thread to ask OP what she did to provoke the man into spitting on her or to 'advice' her to be a good wife by being more submissive and prayerful and non complaining. Get away from him because if he does this he's already crossed the line into assault and more is inevitable. When I get disappointed at the way others respond to me or to what I have done for them, I often think of what happened to Jesus on that night when He came before these Jewish leaders. Notice that it wasnt just a few who spit in his face that night; the Bible says, they spit in his face. The word they refers to all the scribes and elders who were assembled for the meeting that night. After a YEAR of this I finally got my own home, and moved in just days before Christmas. Come join the discussion about love, romance, health, behavior, conflict resolution, care, and more! He actually spit on your face. And why me? You might wanna take a break from him, while he go sought for help. reader, buckster12+, writes (10 July 2009): Already have an account? . Has there ever been a time in your life when you felt like someone you tried to help later turned around and spit in your face? Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? The only reason that would be okay is if it was something you agreed upon before it happening, like in a sexual context. You deserve better than this. I dont necessarily think it matters what the context was but for some reason Im able to dismiss the behavior. Thank you all. 8) If this gets into the hands of foreign nationals it would be an abomination and spitting in the face of all those who fought and died for this country. No apology, no acknowledgement of it being a horrible thing. Out of these cookies, the cookies that are categorized as necessary are stored on your browser as they are essential for the working of basic functionalities of the website. cntrUpTag.track('cntrData', '792af70f56c54e86'); We use cookies on our website to give you the most relevant experience by remembering your preferences and repeat visits. What have these conflicts revealed about you? I know it's hard to believe, but there are men out there who won't hit and spit, no matter how provoked they might feel. As if it wasnt insulting enough to spit on Jesus, approximately one hundred men viciously and cruelly struck Him with their fists. To make it worse, the offender would usually spit hard and close to the persons face, making it all the more humiliating. No woman with self-respect would ever allow anyone to spit in her face. Colossians 1:28, 2023 Rick Renner Ministries. That should be the man of your dreams and trust me when that man comes along you will fancy him anyway. This was an extremely humiliating scene! Cos for sure, this guy needs help (serious professional help).And from ur story,its so obvious u are not happy in that marriage, well except if u enjoy been spat on, which no one in their right senses will. He could have gotten arrested for doing that had you called the police. In the end, it was worth it. In that culture and time, spitting in ones face was considered to be the strongest thing you could do to show utter disgust, repugnance, dislike, or hatred for someone. 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It's not too late to call the cops, I did not know that it was considered battery. In the end, it was just talk. It all depends if you value yourself and if you have any self-respect. Go to our stickied post for more details. Colleague 1: I offered the client what I thought was a good deal and he spat in my face. this morning. It spits in the face of everyone who judges people without knowing them. For three years, Jesus preached, taught, and healed the sick. Get out, and do it for your kids. You shouldn't let any one abuse you emotionally, psycholigically or physically. So now that you have reported him to everyone and he has refused to get help or listen, what do you intend to do? He poked fun at us, ridiculed us, mocked us, and put us down in front of his people. If you told the man how you feel about him spitting on you and he continued to do it and you chose to stay then I'm afraid to say it but you my dear are the one who needs the counseling. Fuck that. They hated Jesus and the anointing that operated through Him to such an extent that they voted to murder Him. I'm trying to imagine I've never seen her get THAT mad during an argument. Well, of course, first, I'd wipe off my face. Then, I'd quit talking to Adding a motor spits in the face of all of those goals. Let me tell you something. Its disgusting. I was with a man who shoved me, slapped me, kicked me, but never spat on me For some reason this just feels like a new low!! by sylviaplath Sun Mar 27, 2016 4:02 am, by Smelljasmine Mon Mar 28, 2016 3:59 am, by sylviaplath Mon Mar 28, 2016 7:19 pm, by Smelljasmine Mon Mar 28, 2016 10:35 pm, by Smelljasmine Mon Apr 18, 2016 2:41 am, Users browsing this forum: No registered users and 3 guests. female Some years ago, I visited another church in our city to hear a special speaker who had come from afar. Wishing you the best, my friend. People don't get a free pass to cheat just because their marriage sucks. That's disrespect. WOW . Can you think of an instance in your life when you did something good for someone, but that person didnt appreciate what you did? Lets be honest: there are many passive and subtle ways that That clinched it! Please leave him before his behavior escalates. 19) and forced to develop a touch-based operating system that confounds billions of users, and spits in the face of millions of developers and specialists whose livelihoods have been built on 20) The duet, in sharp contrast, is powered by underdog defiance. Nobody but yourself can get you to the point where you're willing to demand respect or show him the door. To me, spitting in a spouses face shows a serious level of contempt. If your relationship has deteriorated to that point then in my admittedly ama If your spouse truly can't control their temper, then you need to leave and stay with someone safe. only he can choose who he wants to be in life. 5) response to a people deep in struggle. Where there is a will, there's a way. So I guess unless it was somehow an absolute accident dump him. 11) just short of an apology. Your browser does not support the audio element. But imagine how Jesus must have felt the night He was taken to the high priest where He was literally spit on by the guards and temple police! I dealt with being abused for over FIVE YEARS with my ex, and it was daily towards the end. Don't have an account? My love for people is consistent, unwavering, unshaken, and unaffected. I understand you been with him for 5 years but even if you were with him for 20 years don't you feel you deserve better? 1) Ole Miss clearly lacks institutional control -- it spit in the face of the rules and was unabashed about doing so, daring someone 2) The Toronto Raptors do not merely spit in the face of prosperity. All Rights Reserved. He appealed the conviction, arguing that spitting did not constitute an assault, but the U.S. 9th Circuit Court of Appeals disagreed. Joe Biden Spit in Your Face at the White House Correspondents' Dinner. for the Q&A section. On this one you simply have to stand up for yourself. It is mandatory to procure user consent prior to running these cookies on your website. Just as the Spirit of God empowered Jesus to love people consistently, regardless of what they did or didnt do, the Holy Spirit can empower you to do the same. 249Disclaimer: Every Nairaland member is solely responsible for anything that he/she posts or uploads on Nairaland. It's only going to get worse. The place they got me hired at would be the place I would meet my now-husband. This is babaric and disgusting. This is a time where you need to be very mad and comunicate that either he apoligise or get out. Any cookies that may not be particularly necessary for the website to function and is used specifically to collect user personal data via analytics, ads, other embedded contents are termed as non-necessary cookies. Well if he is real violent that might not be a good idea. Jesus replied by telling them that they would indeed one day see Him sitting on the right hand of power and coming with clouds of glory (Matthew 26:64). Honestly, he is only steps away from physical abuse, and I know that for a fact because my ex used to spit in my face during arguments. reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2009): A kulyie: If you know your worth,if you know how inestimably valuable you are you will not reduce yourself to a level where anybody will spit on you.its obvious you lack One scholar notes that there could have been one hundred or more men in this crowd! "Women teach men life and men teach women death." Press question mark to learn the rest of the keyboard shortcuts. These cookies will be stored in your browser only with your consent. But soon after our dedication, this man stood before a large convention of several thousand people and sneered at our new facility. You also have the option to opt-out of these cookies. They had lied about us, scoffed at us, and even prayed for our downfall. In one of the nations most grotesque events, supposedly unbiased journalists gather to cosplay as Hollywood stars and give each other awards for partisan reporting. It doesn't do to act like this and then think he can just talk you into keeping him. Matthew 26:67,68 says, Then did they spit in his face, and buffeted him; and others smote him with the palms of their hands, saying, Prophesy unto us, thou Christ, Who is he that smote thee?. They STILL cower when someone raises their voice. If I had the means, I would be gone. They eventually got my car back for me, after telling them my situation. Matthew 26:67 says, Then did they spit in his face, and buffeted him. The word buffet is the Greek word kolaphidzo, which means to strike with the fist. Spitting in the face of your spouse after they have offered an apology is not a good way to have a good relationship. He had hit me before too. male Um, he won't wake up to tend to his own children when they need it, he spits in your face and thinks it justified. When I was truly deeply appalled and shocked. var month=mydate.getMonth() Where does it come from?? 12/18/2014 14:56. Was he so unappreciative that you felt as if hed spit in your face? You can't. I was shocked. Or have the conflicts revealed you have a fickle love that you quickly turn off when people dont respond to you the way you wished they would? The same Holy Spirit who lived in Jesus now lives in you. If I could find something else wrong with him, I might not have such a struggle with my choices. . if the man just hit the wife for no real reason other then the fact that he was angry then that is not forgivable but if the wife was one of those pushy bitches who refuse to let up on someone when they're in an argument and wouldn't get out of the husband's face for two seconds so he walloped her because he was being pushed to his breaking point I hope you don't think I have a problem with finding a man. Its inclusive of rejection, isolation, and other forms of diminution and dismissal. There is a lot to be said for a nice, kind, funny, sweet man who does not look like a catalogue model or a rock star and who thinks he is bloody lucky to have you. We used to fight constantly we have both worked on toning that down successfully but now it seems when we do fight, its over stupid **** and its brutal. He became the perfect husband shortly after he hit me for the last time 5 months ago now. When Someone Is In Your Face Diffusing anger before it ignites. I'm sorry I don't know whether to laugh or cry at this your story. Is your love for those unkind people consistent, unwavering, unshaken, and unaffected? 1. All perfect praise be to Allaah, The Lord of the Worlds. As much as I've put up with over the years for our marriage to stay in tact, everything we've been through and it just seems like he wants to hurt me. Personally, for me, spitting in someone's face and calling them a cunt is as bad as punching them in the face. @ op you are the only one that knows where the shoe pinches.am even suprised you're saying you're in england and still you dont know what to do.is there not cops that you can report to for psychological assault?do you have kids?if you do is that the type of environment you want your kids to grow in where they see daddy spits on mummy at will.you can cover up for your husband for as long as you care,when they grow to a state of knowing their left from their right,i bet you will have a lot of questions to answer.secondly am not sure you want your kids growing up in a house where they think its normal for men to spit on women.remember you are their model and they will do exactly what they see their father and mother do,you dont want your son to repeat what his uncivilized and animalistic father is doing.sit down in that pseudo marriage till he pours acid on you.shebi its still saliva on your face,he will soon upgrade.you've talked to him severally,your mom to has begged him and he hasn't changed and your number 6 is not telling you that he doesnt have any plan of changing.dont you realise that theres nothing permanent in life.its either the person gets better or worse..however if you choose to die being a mrs,there are finishing school for crude and unrefined men like your husband.you can take him there and or take him to a hospital for mental check up or report to the police if he spits on you again or stay in the marriage,endure whatever nonesense you see,raise children who will become animalistic and die there.shikena. 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